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Wednesday
Jun182008

Inspiration needed, please, thank you.

No way has it been nine days since I've posted. Those dates are wrong. Typepad is lying to you. Which is something I would never do. Also, butterflies taste like candy. No kidding. If you don't believe me, I guess you can lick one and find out for yourself, scientist.

It's Limbo Week here at Chez Finslippy, the week between the ending of school and the beginning of gloriously exhausting summer camp. Right now Henry has two friends over; they're in the next room, loudly re-enacting various scenes from Kung Fu Panda. Until they start kung fu-ing each other and blood spatters the walls, I'll just stay in here, quietly typing, hoping they don't realize it's lunch time and Food-Giving Woman has not yet supplied them with sustenance.

So I'm struggling with a creative block right now, or not so much a block as the feeling that the creative part of me has shriveled up. There's nothing blocking it, it's just a raisin. How do you go to a raisin for ideas? See, even my metaphors aren't working.

I find one good way of getting past these periods is to talk about them, so here I am, revealing my block to the world. I'm not too surprised, frankly. I got out of my daily writing routine when the miscarriage happened and my daily routine became sleeping and crying. It sounds about right that that part of me has atrophied a bit. And I know that these periods eventually end and are replaced by increased brilliance. (Or maybe that's only true for me.) Unfortunately my work demands more than me patiently waiting for my mojo to return. So I ask you, readers: how do you kickstart your creative energy? Just don't tell me to buy a Sark book, because Scott would never let me live it down.

Reader Comments (106)

A neighbor just returned a Sark book that I had lent her about 8 years ago. I never missed it. Do you want it? I'll totally send it to you.
June 18, 2008 | Unregistered CommenterRobin
I think of a way to improve myself (like reading the classics) or a project I would like to do (like converting a room into a Walden-esque escape) and then become lost in that. It gives me something to write about and I get to being introspective and have some good material. Or I pick a crusade, usually something that ticks me off, and write mercilessly about that.

Good luck!
June 18, 2008 | Unregistered CommenterLori
Sark. Oh jesus, I could have gone all day without being reminded of those books.

Inspriation seems to be a blogospheric issue right now. I say get outside: go for a hike, a walk, to the park whatever. It will make you feel better, I promise.

And if that doesn't work, just listen to John McCain for awhile; that'll piss you off and give you something to write about. :)
June 18, 2008 | Unregistered Commenterkate
Writing things down on paper always works for me. Flows better somehow.
June 18, 2008 | Unregistered CommenterXumca
Plotting vengence works for me. I start by deciding to write a murder mystery based on whatever situation is causing me frustration. Then I outline the plot, work on character profiles, how and where the victim will die, who will be wrongly accused of the murder but deserve to go to jail anyway etc. Eventually I have to research something that I want to use and before I know it I have veered off target and happened upon a half dozen more interesting to think about and can't decide what to work on.
June 18, 2008 | Unregistered CommenterElise
Write everyday. On here. About anything. Getting back into the habit of writing will help kickstart things.

To me, some of the best stuff you write (and Dooce too) is just the everyday stuff. The mundane seems funny when you guys write about it. I think most of your readers would agree, we don't care what you write about... JUST WRITE!!!





June 18, 2008 | Unregistered CommenterElizabeth
Travel, baby. Damn the price of oil, pack a carry-on and go somewhere. Anywhere. Just change the scene.

But don't come to Houston. It's like the bowels of hell down here, with its humidity and heat indexes. Go north, young woman!



June 18, 2008 | Unregistered CommenterChookooloonks


Dearest Alice,

I fear just READING about your creative dust bowl will turn my own vine ideas into a Sun Maiden’s dream. I’m superstitious that way.

However, unlike you, I don’t’ always write about personal matters, which tends to widen the playing field a bit. Yahoo News and the like are great fodder resources. For the mentally twisted that is.

Raisiny,Joe





June 18, 2008 | Unregistered CommenterHeyJoe
You know that saying about how you are not a human being, you are a human DOING? I hate that saying. This is usually because I am too busy being to do. But in this case it's not bad advice. Last year I heard humor writer Dave Barry speak, and his advice was to get out. Go out. Do things. See things. Grand opening at the Petsmart? Lame, but go. It may spark something. New water treatment facility is now offering tours? Go.

And so on. I'm a humor writer, and I do a lot of navel-gazing for topics, but I've found that my best stuff is usually the stuff I came across outside my comfortable little domain. Yes, it's harder with kids home for the summer, but not impossible. Gotta start somewhere. :-)
June 18, 2008 | Unregistered CommenterGeorge
I posted about inspiration herehttp://tinyurl.com/4auhhuI think that you have to dig down and look all around and allow it to find you :)
June 18, 2008 | Unregistered Commenteramy
I would do something away from my computer that I've been meaning to do (gardening perhaps). And then come back to the whole computer business later. Perhaps with a valium and glass of wine.

Also change of settings is often good. Pack up the laptop and venture somewheres else.
June 18, 2008 | Unregistered CommenterMiss Grace
When I have writer's block (a lot), I get on the phone. I tell my friends/family/misdialed strangers that I have writer's block and need them to be creative for me. Thankfully, my friends are weird, and put up with my nonsense. Usually, one of them will say something ridiculous/helpful/complain about a personal problem/scream at me and it will spark an idea.
June 18, 2008 | Unregistered CommenterErin at Unclutterer
I went through such a Sark phase in college---which, wow, no wonder no-one invited me to parties---and I just remembered it thanks to you. I even underlined in the books. UNDERLINED. With a colored pen, of course.
June 18, 2008 | Unregistered CommenterShe Likes Purple
I agree with the write every day suggestion. What about SanDiegoMomma (dot com)'s PromptTuesdays? She's got little inspirational writing exercises every Tuesday and she demands that you use no more than 10 minutes and 250 words so it's pretty painless and might throw you into the fray in the right way.
June 18, 2008 | Unregistered CommenterKizz
Exercise a different part of your creative brain. Do you paint? Sculpt? Scrapbook? Crochet? Decorate clothing with puffy paint?Whatever! Make something that is not made of words.



June 18, 2008 | Unregistered CommenterStephanie
I just got unstuck this morning, but I had a guilt and avoidance issue going on. I had started a Fathers' Day post, and never got around to finishing it, and hadn't gotten my wonderful dad anything except the card that my husband actually got him.

Once I decided to delete the lame-ass first effort and let myself off the hook, I was able to post about why I was blogged down, and ended up able to write a little something about my dad.

So that was a long-winded way of saying that if your blockage is due to guilt and avoidance about something you promised yourself you'd write, or that you wanted to write reallllllly well, just back off, let yourself off the hook, and write whatever comes to mind. Like you just did. Hey, I think you already had your answer.

And yeah, I totally agree with Elizabeth up there--write ANYTHING on here! Every day! Because we check! And we get all happy when there's something new!
June 18, 2008 | Unregistered Commenterkim
i just write dumb stuff. anything that spews OUT Of MY brain (sorry, ari's trying to typE WITH me) eventuAlLY I WiLL HIT SOmeTHING THAT sparks something. aLTHOUGH I `HAVEN'T Q`1 written anything in a long time either. maybe because mY typing is being interrupted so6...you could also just try to start stuff and leave it out and keep going and looking at it and guilting yourself to do it ( i do that with my other creative works, and chores)
June 18, 2008 | Unregistered Commenteraubrey cece
hm.. maybe just do more stuff than you usually do? go to a museum, see a movie, take a walk in the evening when things cool down.. i find that when i "do" more, i think better.
June 18, 2008 | Unregistered Commentersarah
I've been lurking for a while, haven't commented, figured now was as good a time as any. First off - very sorry to have read about your recent miscarriage, and glad to read that life is returning (somewhat?) to normal, whatever that is. At least time is passing, and I guess that's something. Anyway, I hope that things are getting better and just know there's another person out here in Web-land who was thinking about you and pulling for you and feeling saddened by your loss back when you first posted on it, and who didn't say anything at the time.

As far as the "block," it's clearly something we all go through, and my (comparatively brief) experience with this has been that when you stop looking for a post, one comes and finds you. I know that sounds trite and simplistic and very much like the old universal "truth" that used to be assigned to trying to find a spouse, or a date, or even a decent pizza, but I think it's true. Droughts like this are usually followed by periods of inspiration and productivity, posts that come out of nowhere, and basically write themselves.

They're in there... and out there... and they will find their way to the publish button. And thanks, very much, for your blog.
June 18, 2008 | Unregistered CommenterJim
Sounds like you probably need to get outside of yourself for a bit and have an experience. If you go around and around in your head (especially when you are still a little depressed) you will just dwell in your creative block and make yourself more and more despondent. Exercise is good too.

Then look for something to kickstart your creativity, sort of like a crutch. Like lift a section from another writer and finish it yourself. Or write your version of an article or story or topic. Open a magazine and put your finger on a word and you have to use that word as a topic. Stuff like that.
June 18, 2008 | Unregistered CommenterAlexandra
Wow, people still read Sark? And why? My only experience of her was, in my novice days as a publishing sprat, sending her galleys to blurb - she sent back a blurb with the proviso that it could be used on the jacket only if it could be PRINTED IN HER OWN HANDWRITING. What a megalomaniac.

And we’re glad to have you back, whatever you write.

June 18, 2008 | Unregistered CommenterLaura
Sark. Sark. oh my. I know someone who thinks Sark is THE MOST AWESOME THING EVER. I don't hang out with her too often, and am in fact avoiding returning a phone call from her right now as I type this and am thinking bad thoughts about freaky Sarkians.

Though getting out and doing something is often a good idea, as others here have noted, my latest way to get going is to do some random clicking on ye olde internete. Read some crap, get angry over the crap that's getting published, know that you can do better, then do better.
June 18, 2008 | Unregistered Commenterfrench panic
It's no wonder it's a raisin...crying is very dehydrating. You need fluid injections into your shriveled up creativity. It's there, just needs plumping. All hope is not lost!
June 18, 2008 | Unregistered Commentersizzle
You should go have lunch with your agent. That will definitely help! ;-)
June 18, 2008 | Unregistered CommenterKaren
Cancel your plane ticket for Blogher... pack two weeks in advance, and hop on the greyhound. Better yet, the green tortoise (assuming they still run the thing.) Then once you get out here, spend a few days riding our MUNI. Not the beautifully restored streetcars, go for the grit. Ride the haight street bus, and you will have material to last a lifetime. I guarantee it!
June 18, 2008 | Unregistered CommenterZip n Tizzy

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